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Trigger
 
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Grouper
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Damn dude sorry to hear this. How old are you guys and do you have kids?
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Trigger
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| Been there, done that. I happened to be working out of town for the Navy, deployed for 6 months. The violation of trust is the worst. She won't ever live it down, and you won't trust her again, so seek your best path out. Secure your funds in case she gets vindictive. Mine got all my money and all my guns and gear, sold em before I returned.  Good luck! You can make it through, just be careful and THINK before you act! Remember she is the bad guy, and it is her fault.
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Sailfish
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Dont do anything stupid and wind up on the six oclock news.
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Mingo
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It's a lie I will guarantee it. I don't think you need advice, I think you know what to do.
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Grouper
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Damn bro hate to here that but like someone else said you will never trust her and it will only get worse. My advice retain a good lawyer and end it before it gets any worse.
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Mingo
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Just to be clear, do what Seminolewind said.
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Sailfish
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| My ex was a drug addict on prescription pills and let me give you some advise from experiance GET THE HELL OUT NOW!!!!! As much as I hate to see a marriage come to an end when it comes to the lies, hanging out with "friends" and drugs it is time to hit the road. With the combination of what you said is going on the only thing you are prolonging is the possibility of her taking all of your money, putting you into debt and at risk of catching a STD. Hate to hear it man but deal with the situation and dont let it get you down, just had my 15th anniversary with my new wife and all of that shit is in the past with my ex.
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Trigger
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I'd get a lawyer and move on. Drinking and pissed off is usually a bad combination. Chin up!
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Trigger
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sorry to hear that brother. get up with me in mid Sept (thats when i will be home from Iraq), i will try my best to get you on some good fish.
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If you are reading it in English, thank a soldier."
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Sailfish
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hell what happen to "i pledge thee my faith".....man hate to hear this....keep a level head and make sure the decision you make it the one thats right ....
  
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Grouper
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| sorry to hear it guy, all good advise above on what to do. two things that can ease the pain: 1) get laid 2)loud headbangin rockin roll ps what ever you do dont listen to country
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Trigger
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| I have been there too, and it sux!!!! WARNING: Do not take want i have to say seriously. 
Yeah it sux.... but do what you have to do. Its better to have loved and lost than to love with regret. move on!
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Sailfish
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Trigger
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| to make things even better I haven't caught a dcent fish in a long time I think it's high time you go fishing As one who agrees with Willie Nelson who asked," Why is divorce so expensive"?
"Cause it's worth it".
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Snapper
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After reading your profile & all your post, your young (25), don't be nieve, get out now, see a lawyer today, as you stated she is also a bitch (in other post), dont be a fool, be smart, get all credit cards & bank card, go close all accounts, you better get started today. Good Luck.
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Sailfish
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one big one (7/25/2008)
After reading your profile & all your post, your young (25), don't be nieve, get out now, see a lawyer today, as you stated she is also a bitch (in other post), dont be a fool, be smart, get all credit cards & bank card, go close all accounts, you better get started today. Good Luck. Damn good advice! Close all the accounts and cancel the credit cards before she goes on a coke binge, then divorce that bitch. If you've got the money, higher a P.I. and get some video evidence of her extramarital behavior at the bars.
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Trigger
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one big one (7/25/2008)
After reading your profile & all your post, your young (25), don't be nieve, get out now, see a lawyer today, as you stated she is also a bitch (in other post), dont be a fool, be smart, get all credit cards & bank card, go close all accounts, you better get started today. Good Luck. Do it. If there's doubt, get out. Been there done that, boot the cheater, at your age and have now been in second marriage for forty good years. There is hope and a better life. Don't go bezerk, it will cost you dearly. Watching my brother go through this now as he has been for six years. He seems to think it will get better, but it doesn't. She has cost him $60k in various rehabs over the years. She can never make it more than two weeks. Nose candy is tough. Less than 10% get clean and most die directly or indirectly form it, if they don't end up in greybar hotel. OBTW, I catch fish now too.
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Grouper
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| Good advice. Get out . You don't need that crap. And as for her telling you she hasn't cheated, guys with drugs don't go around giving them away to women because they like their personalities. You'll find somebody decent one day and look back and be SO glad you left.
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Trigger
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If you've got the money, higher a P.I. and get some video evidence of her extramarital behavior at the bars. Florida is a no fault divorce state...you probaby won't get any better deal just because she cheated on you (or so my lawyer friend tells me as he reads over my shoulder). Now if kids are involved and you want custody, then gathering evidence is smart...otherwise, you're wasting your money. Harry
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Snapper
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| Adultery is against the law in many places, too bad they don't follow through with that....
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Harry Brosofsky (7/25/2008)
If you've got the money, higher a P.I. and get some video evidence ofher extramaritalbehavior at the bars.
Florida is a no fault divorce state...you won't get any better deal just because she cheated on you. Now if kids are involved and you want custody, then gathering evidence is smart...otherwise, you're wasting your money.
Harry
from what I understand...Floridas divorce laws REALLY suck
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Mingo
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| if you find out who the guy is, dont go after him. big trouble there. its cheaper to hire a lawyer and have a clean divorce than to try to fix a mans car windshield, side windows, mirrors-both sides, two tires and his nose. actually drinking helped my pain. but thats not for everyone. i feel for you. i know that ole heart is hurting right now. go find a stray in a bar or somewhere and have a good time. remember the strays go home the next day. they dont hang around and wonder why the grass isnt cut or say you dont talk to them enough.
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Snapper
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Brian, If what you are thinking is true, close the bank accounts she has access to, cancel credit cards she has access to, and go on the bud light party cruise! I know you, I worked with you at Boaters World. I know u have a temper, so control it and dont do anything that would make things worse. Listen to the guys on the forum. Hell, if you want, I'll meet up with u and we can go get some beers and chase the "strays"
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Trigger
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i feel your pain,i am in the middle of a divorce but sometimes if the trust is broken it will never heal.dont do anything stupid because it will cost you a whole lot more.remember it is gonna hurt for awhile but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
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Trigger
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Nail every last one of her friends.. even the ugly ones..... to start.. get back with me when that's done and I'll give you your next mission..
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flats stalker (7/25/2008)
i feel your pain,i am in the middle of a divorce but sometimes if the trust is broken it will never heal.dont do anything stupid because it will cost you a whole lot more.remember it is gonna hurt for awhile but there is light at the end of the tunnel.I too am in the middle of a divorce where the trust was broken and can understand everything you are feeling. Keep a clear head and concentrate on doing what you need to do to protect yourself, finances, and future. Try not to let your emotions get the best of you and cause you to make rash decisions. It all becomes a business deal if a divorce is what you are going to pursue. Your emotions are going to make you a basket case at times but it will get better, hang in there.
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Snapper
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Jarhead (7/25/2008)
Nail every last one of her friends.. even the ugly ones..... to start.. get back with me when that's done and I'll give you your next mission..I forgot to mention this one, remember your the good guy.
Bill
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Trigger
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Nail every last one of her friends.. even the ugly ones..... to start.. get back with me when that's done and I'll give you your next mission..
Jarhead - you are tooooo funny...LMAO...still chuckling here - even my ol'lady is laughing And always remember - marraige is the leading cause of divorce.
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Ruby Red Lip
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| My wife told me three months ago that she wanted a divorce ! I 'am still living in the house (she's not going to have her cake and eat it too). I got served two weeks ago with my paperwork while at work ! I already hired an attorney , and , am ready for the next step ! I'm not going to say its been easy , but , please remember to take care of yourself first (and , if you have kids , them too ). Life is too short to have to be stressed out all the dam time ! It'll get better , cause , it can't get no dam worse !! Take care of yourself ! PM me, and we'll go grab a cold one !!!!
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